Summer 2018

Summer is over and oh boy, was it a summer for the record book.

We kicked off the summer with a nice long vacation in Puerto Vallarta.  Three weeks after our trip, we found out I'm pregnant!  There's definitely something magical about Mexico for us.

Katy the day she came home from the hospital.  She too was made in Mexico.

Here's a video of me telling Chris about the pregnancy via his father's day gift, which included the onesie pictured above.  Folded inside the onesie were the results from my blood test confirming the pregnancy.  In hindsight, a paper containing a bunch of lab numbers was not the best way to tell Chris the big news, but eventually he figured it out.

Shortly after we learned about the pregnancy, Chris became a partner at the firm where he has been working for the past couple of years.  I'm super excited for Chris' new position.  For the first seven years of our marriage, Chris sacrificed his career to follow me around.  It feels good to prioritize his career now, watch him achieve one of his goals, and know for the first time in our marriage that we will live somewhere long term.

Two days after Chris became a partner, Chris and I went to our first sonogram.  As soon as the doctor scanned across my uterus, before he uttered any words, I saw two blobs flit in and out of the screen.  I  immediately knew we were in for the biggest surprise yet.

That's right - those are twins!   

Chris was so excited when the doctor confirmed that we have twins.  I was...much more reserved.  It took me a little longer to be excited about having two babies at once, which our doctor attributed to the fact that Chris doesn't have to carry and deliver them. 

Within a week of learning about the twins, Chris and I decided to move to a town 45 minutes away, the town where Chris' office is located.  By the end of the summer, we were closing on a new house and moving.  Katy loved every single minute of the moving process.  She was definitely the most enthusiastic mover I've ever seen.

One Sunday morning I left the house in order.  I came home two hours later to a moving truck and a house being packed.

This girl LOVED playing in the middle of all the packing and with various packing supplies.

Katy was also VERY excited to load, unload, and ride in the moving truck.

As much as we complained about the big trees at our last home, here we are with even bigger trees.

Come visit us and I'll put the welcoming crew at the front door for you.

The only room in the house that looks somewhat "moved into."  Check out the jungle in our back yard.

But let's talk about the twins.  I know that's what you're dying to hear about. Telling people about the twins has been a blast.  Katy spilled the beans to my mom at Target.  My mom was so confused at first that it was almost comical.

Katy, it turns out, is a terrible secret keeper.  She also tried to spill the beans to my grandma, my friend Rachella, and Katy's four-year-old friend Mattias.  The latter was the most amusing.  The conversation went something like this:

     Katy:  "We are going to have two babies." 

     Mattias, after thinking a minute:  "We already have two babies in my house"

Mattias has two younger siblings, so the news of two babies was completely normal to him.

We announced the news to my brother-in-law and his family when they visited for a few days, at a restaurant appropriately named Los Cautes (Spanish for twins).  When we told my brother Dennis I'm pregnant, he started asking questions about the pregnancy before I had time to add the twin detail.  I answered all his questions in the plural: "they are due February 15," "we won't know the genders until they are born," and, "we haven't decided their names yet."  He finally paused and asked, "Wait, are you having more than one baby?"  

There have also been amusing video calls and text messages, an impromptu conference in a cramped pantry, and a group chat where someone responded with, "You shouldn't joke about something like that."  Once we finally told all of our family, we had a potluck with some local friends and announced the twins as I was taking a group photo.  I love Rachella's enthusiasm at the news.

It's Twins!

My sister-in-law recently sent me our first twin outfit.  The tiny onesies made having twins feel like something tangible and real for the first time. 

Although several big things happened this summer, most of the summer felt a little slow.  My teaching duties ended in May, leaving a huge void in my time commitments.  Due to pregnancy fatigue, I dropped several other commitments on my plate and spent most of the summer finding time to nap or rest.  Unlike last summer, there were no trips to the museum and there were very few play dates.  Katy and I made it to two library events all summer, we never made it to the local aquatic center, and I took Katy to the splash park for the first time after most of the older kids had already returned to school.  

Furthermore, for most of the summer I didn't talk to anyone about the big things unfolding.  We didn't reach the end of the first trimester until August, which is when we finally started telling people about the pregnancy.  We decided not to tell people about the house until we announced the twins, because the twins were a factor in our decision to move.  So, while all these bigs things were happening, and while I had a big void in my day-to-day routine due to a lack of commitments, I had lots of big news to just keep to myself.  It made for a summer that felt as if it was dragging at times.

But now the cat is out of the bag.  Chris became a partner, I'm pregnant with twins, and we moved.  I didn't do much else this summer, but I think that's okay given all that's going on.

P.S. Here are some belly pictures to boot.

14 weeks and a little photo bomber.

16 weeks

19 weeks.  The babies are really growing now.